Respect for the Man

I am deeply grateful that I feel I have the right man in my life. Many times, I stopped believing that this was still possible. In my relationships with men, I often went through great inner purgatory - perhaps also because I spent my childhood without a father. I lived in eight different countries over the course of twenty years. I often saw and felt a great deal of pain in men, and a strong pressure that had been placed upon them repeatedly for generations - to provide for the whole family and not to fail. This pressure most often manifests in intimate moments. Men were told that they should not cry, because it was seen as weakness. For me, it is an expression of strength and courage. For me, it is beautiful to feel the open heart of my man. His sensitivity and perceptiveness have grown stronger because he knows he can express himself and that I will not judge or evaluate him. In those moments, I truly hear him and offer him the emotional support and love he needs most. And then there are also moments when it is necessary to let him go through certain processes on his own. Through this, he can step into his masculine strength, and I can relax into my femininity. I perceive rapid growth in all areas of my life; I have become much calmer and have taken responsibility for my emotions. This does not mean that I do not allow myself to express them, but they no longer control me. In this way, we are rewriting old behavioral patterns for future generations, so that our children do not have to experience them. For me, this is a very important value in my life, and it gives me a deeply beautiful feeling inside. I believe that a harmonious relationship is something everyone can experience. If we want to live in a healthy society, then a healthy partnership is essential in my view. The changes we make in every moment have a powerful impact on our lives, the lives of others, and future generations. This gives my life deep meaning and moves me forward.