Something about Reward-based relationship

Something about Reward-based relationship. Thank you for the relationship I am able to live. It is said that in a lifetime we experience three kinds of love in romantic relationships. Perhaps there is some truth to that. I will not elaborate on the first two types here—maybe only to say that they were love as well, but arising from different levels of awareness. A reward-based relationship, and the love within it, is something that quietly slips into your life. There is no wanting, no striving, and it may not even occur to you that you could become a couple. There are no butterflies in the stomach, yet somewhere deep inside you feel that being with this person is simply good. This kind of love arrives slowly, but all the more intensely. The more you experience together, the deeper the love becomes. And it is not only the beautiful moments. Love forces you to look into the deepest layers of yourself and bring to the surface what you have long suppressed or forgotten. You no longer care whether you wake up in the morning well-groomed or in a positive mood. Your partner accepts you exactly as you are. They feel your emotions, understand your moods and your words, without slipping into blame or victimhood. They are willing to move toward deeper self-knowledge through interactions with me. This relationship with Andrejka has brought me so much. From fulfilled lovemaking, through a deeper experience of joy as well as sorrow. It has brought me profound self-reflection, in which Andrejka has played many different roles. My boundaries have grown stronger, and with them my self-love and self-worth. She sees my gifts and qualities, and in moments when I need it, she holds me close and looks into my soul with her love and gentle words. In return, I can stand beside her like a strong tree and offer her masculine support, so she can relax into the beautiful femininity she carries within. In many ways, she is a powerful inspiration to me. With her support, manifesting visions becomes much easier. A year ago, I thought our relationship had reached its deepest depth and authenticity—but the opposite is true. It continues to move deeper and deeper. Even through our fears, we stand firmly by each other, and only God knows what potential still lies ahead. I allow myself to be carried forward, filled with love.

Thank you, Andrejka, for choosing me every morning.